Confinement.. Haygen is 1month old!

My 3D2N stay at TMC ended on 7th Nov, Sunday.
Total hospital bill :$

Baby Haygen latched on well. My milk kicks in on day2. But he been a sleepy baby, latched for 5mins+, he fall into deep sleep & refused to wake no matter how I disturbed him.
Day1 vit k
Day2 bcg left thigh
Day3 hep b rt thigh

Proceed home on Sunday 7nov.
MIL came to help, felt at eased whenever she's around coz she just know wat to do.. Hee...

Confinement lady, mdm LianHua from PEM agency, came around late noon.
Well, she wasn't the CL we intended to engage. The CL we want was mdm QinZhen, as per cousin Annie's recommendation. But as she have some legal matter to attend to on MAlaysia. She couldn't make it for our job, hence Eric introduced this CL.
Well, first impression so-so.. She's quite loud & do not seem to be very good in hygiene. But thought just give it a try. Gave her angpao $28.

Well, true enough she's rough to baby, baby always wail loudly whenever she bathed him. :(
Her cooking is not bad but always seem to be over quantity. Oh ya not to mention. She spent $70 on a day of marketing! Day2 the same $70! Omg! Day 3, we couldn't take it, FiL helped to do marketing instead. MIL helped to get fish etc, the spendings was so much lesser compared to hers.
Baby latch & on tbm.

Went PD on 10th nov. Day 5.
Bby growth is ok.
Weight 3.27kg
Mild jaundice ff checkup on 12nov.
Mummy wt 61.5kg

Pd ff up on bby jaundice. Day 7,
No more jaundice, growth is ok. 3.29kg.

ML came 730am 13nov. Massage $50, $30 for wrap cloth, $20 for velco belt. Total $100.

Having CL & FIL both at home doesn't exactly make my confinement easier than b4, mainly it's the prescence of Rayden. Rayden hv displayed quite a bit of playfulness compared to usual. I hv a hard time coping with the welfare of Rayden & Haygen & myself. Fil simply get frustrated each time dealing w him, be it feedg him milk/meals/shower/sleep. Practically I took care of Rayden, except the schooling. He spent alot of time w me & Haygen, n each time I fear his playful actions might accidentally harm Haygen, or his loud voice will startled Haygen.
I've lost my temper many a times with Rayden, & got physical :( I felt very guilty after tat, he's juz a 4yr old.
2wks passed.. Well I'm still having lukewarm feelg towards our confnement lady, we feel tat she more like a maid than CL. Her cooking is soso , hubby & I keep having diarrhoea after meals. Wonder wats wrong. We can't decide whether wanna change or nt. Coz she's quite Ez gg she help feedg Rayden meals etc. But she can b quite stubborn & talk alot!
Hmm.. Haygen is Progressing fine, but still a sleepy head when milktime, hence almost every hr need feeds & hard to burp.  Nite feeds gv been on bottle. As per CL, he can drink up to 5oz (150ml) last 3 hrs.. As per my gf tats a lot for a 3wk old bb.
For me went for gynea checkup on 19 nov fri, i was given antibotics & antiseptic cream. Apparently my wound got infection as per my masseur observation too. :( I really hope my wound able to get well soon. & confinement period over soon. Bb grow up healthy soon. It really tiring to hv a newborn w a active toddler.. 
Another headache is the caring of Haygen aft I return to work. N gettg a maid.. Headaches headaches headaches... 

After 6 days of Malay massage, waistline 30", hip 38"
Wt 59kg 24nov

Called PEM to ask for replacement nanny on 23nov can't withstand her attitude any longer. New CL, Aunty EngHua will come 25nov, MIL will tk half day to help.

25nov
Mummy 58.4kg

Aunty Lian hua left, paid her 18days $996, come angpao $28, go angpao $20.
New CL Aunty eng hua, 10days. $554
come angpao $28, go angpao $50
Extended Aunty eng hua for 5 days until 8th. Total payment $929
Aunty EngHua is so much better in babycare, I feel at eased to entrust bb with her, her hygiene level is ok too,
On breastfeedg. Left breast got bleb then bb suckle broke it. No discharge nor blood, called tmc, fine to cont to latch. But painful for me so juz pump. Since 6dec, 7 dec bb broke it. Hv been feelg extremely painful whn bb suckle weeks ago. The bleb could be caused by the suction of pump, or incorrect latchg of bb. 

Haygen's full month 4Dec Sat
Was rather ill prepared, as always.. Didn't manage to get any better/proper location, hence again we decided to do it at home.
It's on 4nov, sat from afternoon to 6pm. Catered food for 50pax from Four Season catering. Not bad the food.. As for cakes for colleagues, I got it from the sweetestmoments.
Phew tiring day for us on the full month party.. I juz wanna slp.. Haygen.. Same sleepy baby throughout his party.. Haa..